Monday, 4 January 2016

Checkout IK Ogbonna with makeup and a wig


The Nollywood actor shared a photo of him in makeup,alluding to the fact his wife did the damage ...Couples who play alot.....

UK based killer cries out over plans to deport him to Nigeria after jail sentence


A killer has complained from jail that he will be deported to Nigeria, though he has never been to Africa.
Junior Bayode was 16 when he took part in the mob stabbing of Sofyen Belamouadden , 15, and was given 11 years for manslaughter in 2013.
According to Mirror UK,Bayode, now 22, blasted jail chiefs over the decision to deport him when he is due to be freed in 2019.
His mother is from Nigeria but he was born in Germany and came to the UK aged nine months.
He wrote to prisoners’ paper Inside Time from Moorland jail in Doncaster that he is “struggling to understand” why he is being deported. He added:

“I may not have been born here but all I know is the British way of life.
Mr Belamouadden teen was chased by a gang of around 20 youths from a rival school and stabbed nine times in just 12 seconds in front of shocked commuters in Victoria Underground Station in central London in the attack two years ago.
Bayode, of Streatham, South London, said the Home Office's “deport first, appeal later” policy was designed to hit migration targets “regardless of human rights”.
He added:
“I have neither travelled nor been to any other country since I arrived in the UK over 20 years ago.
“My past, my present and my future is firmly rooted in British soil, hence why I am struggling to understand why I have been served with a deportation order to a country I have never been to - Nigeria.
"I was distraught when I read on the order that I can only appeal after my deportation."

Testimony: How Juliet Ibrahim went from being an Usher to the host of 2016 GLO CAF Awards


 

Did you settle the fight on the Mainland? Tosyn Bucknor, Jude Okoye react to Donjazzy & Olamide's reconciliation


OAP Tosyn Bucknor and musc producer Jude Okoye have reacted to the Don Jazzy and Olamide receonciliation.
Now that's maturity right here. Love you guys for this. @donjazzy @baddosneh this act of reconciliation will bring forth more blessings to both parties this 2016. BLESS

Tosyn Bucknore also wrote "*relief* Cos some of us love *john legend's voice* "all of you" P.s, was this taken on the mainland?"

Sunday, 3 January 2016

Child abduction: More troubles for Davido over medical report

Child abduction: More troubles for Davido over medical report
•Davido with his babymama Sophia
The last has not been heard of the child abduction saga between the family of popular singer, David Adeleke, (aka Davido) and Dele Momodu, publisher of Ovation magazine, as the former, yesterday, released a pathology report showing that the mother of his child, Sophia Momodu, tested positive to cannabis.
The artiste uploaded a scanned copy of the purported medical report from Clina-Lancet Laboratories on Instagram, sparking fresh rounds of reactions from followers.
Last week, the news media was awash with tales of how the musician’s family had talked Sophia into releasing her breast-sucking child, Imade, for medical examinations, but later suspected she had been tricked, as plans to fly the child out of the country was aborted by immigration at the airport.
Sophia’s lawyer had filed a petition against the Adeleke family for alleged abduction of the child, accusing the singer of planning to travel to the United States with the baby without her mother’s consent. The petition was addressed to the Director General of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP).
Perhaps to prove that his family’s intend was indeed for medical reasons, Davido came out with Sophia’s medical report. The medical report has a footnote which reads; “Sophia’s test that shows for cannabis aka Indian hemp or marijuana which she passed to the baby through breast milk or as second hand smoke.”
But some of the fans who reacted to the post felt that if there was any medical report of the baby with trace of the drug, that could have been more appropriate for the singer’s claim.
In the same vein, spokesperson of the Momodu family, Dele Momodu, is of the view that the medical report does not hold water. Speaking toThe Nation, he said that since the case has been taken to court, he is constraint to say much.
“Sebi he sent you report. Do you know what the other people have? If you go to court for example, you will have your own documents; the other people will have their own document so there is no hurry. If they’ve invited both parties, when we get there, we will see the documents. When we get there, we will see whether they are false. I’m not allowed to speak on it. The lawyers are already involved,” he said.
On whether they will be pressing fresh charges, Momodu said: “I don’t know what the lawyers will decide. That is why I can’t comment on the issue. The Adelekes are free to do whatever they want. I think what they are trying to do is to justify what they did but once they were accosted at the airport, it was no longer within my control.”
Sophia Momodu’s lawyer, Gbolaga Ajayi, has also insinuated that the medical report circulating on the internet is a suspicious document.
Speaking with The Nation, Ajayi said; “we are seeing that report for the first time, therefore it is hard for us to verify its genuineness. In Nigeria, people fabricate documents from everywhere. So that document itself is suspicious to us because the lady involved, our client, has never been given that medical report before. Curiously, no competent medical laboratory will give your report to a third party without giving you at least a copy.”
Ajayi however said that if indeed the report is correct, the public circulation is a violation of his client’s privacy. “We know the meaning of that in the law. The legal implication is very grave. It is very grave both on the part of the party that did it and the party that solicited for it. Three, there is no place in that report that I’ve seen thus far where any issue of cannabis use by our client having effect on the baby was mentioned,” he added.
There are indications that, going by the incident of the purported medical report, Davido might face a separate suit bothering on the civil right of Sophia. “It is an abuse and rape of somebody’s right to privacy. It is a constitutional issue. Our reaction to it will be in line with what the civil law demands,” Ajayi stated.
There is no gainsaying that the issue of marriage between Davido and Sophia is not in the equation, but what many are concerned about his the attempt to forcefully separate mother and child in a controversial manner.
Davido has said that Sophia’s pregnancy came as an accident, as he was not ready to be a father yet.
According to him, “when the second trimester of Sophia’s pregnancy was closing, she announced that she was in the family way. My mind was bemused, and so was my soul confused. But I quickly realised that nothing more could be done to alter my status as a father-to-be. I knew that I was not ready to be a dad. Still, I adjusted myself to the realities of my new situation and the consequences of my past personal indiscretions. I made the determination that I was going to be a good dad. I also reasoned that my blunder is not enough pretext to make me a husband. I was just 21. And so I decided to be a responsible dad without being husband to the mother of my baby. I never was in love with Sophia neither was marriage ever in the offing,” he posted alongside the photograph.

Korede Bello Visits Emir Sanusi In Kano State

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Sanusi and korede bello


#Godwin# crooner Korede Bello was pictured with Emir of Kano  Lamido Sanusi and a fellow label mate at Sanusi’s palace.

The Davido versus babymama drama is still on: 13 new things we learnt from both parties






Earlier today, Punch newspaper published a story.

According to a report, Davido and his family members were still holding on to Sophia's baby!


 
1. A member of the Momodu family reportedly told Punch that the Adelekes threatened that only the court could take the baby away from them.
 
 The family member who spoke on condition of anonymity said, 
‘‘We have been told that only the court can take the baby away from them. But we also want to know if they took the baby away from the mother through the court. The baby’s mother is heartbroken and cries everyday over the matter.’’
 2.  The Adelekes and the Momodus will meet with officials of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons this week over the petition sent by the Momodus to the agency on December 30, 2015.
  

One of the sources who spoke with SUNDAY PUNCH on Saturday said,
 ‘‘I can confirm to you that the two families are meeting with the agency this week. I cannot say the exact day of the week because the agency gave an option for them to choose a particular day the two families can agree on. They are to come and explain what transpired before it got to the level of attempted abduction.’’

Hours ago, singer Davido, released an article, telling his side of the raging controversy as he battles his baby-mama, Sophia Momodu and her uncle, Dele Momodu, for the custody of his love-child, Imade Adeleke.

3. Revelation on the brith of Imade, the baby and how Dele Momodu abandoned Sophia

"When the second trimester of Sophia’s pregnancy was closing, she tortuously announced to me that she was in the family way.

My mind was bemused,and so was my soul confused. But I quickly realized that nothing more could be done to alter my status as a father-to-be. I knew that i was not ready to be a dad. Still, I adjusted myself to the realities of my new situation and the consequences of my past personal indiscretions.
I made the determination that I was going to be a good dad. I also reasoned that my blunder is not enough pretext to make me a husband. I was just 21. And so I decided to be a responsible dad without being husband to the mother of my baby. I never was in love with Sophia neither was marriage ever in the offing.

Without knowing for sure that I was the real dad of the baby, I entrusted Sophia to the services of a private hospital for both pre-natal and post-natal medical cares. An apartment at Lekki was leased for 2 years, and paid for by me. The burden of medical bills, feeding, transportation and sundry costs rested on my person. No family member of Sophia including Uncle Dele Momodu rose to help nor guide Sophia.

I own my property at Lekki and had allowed Sophia to stay in the house because she claimed that she knew nobody in Lagos and that her father was deceased whilst her mother was resident in Abuja. For real, Sophia was a drifter without a dime, education nor career.

My compassion, ignorance, naivety and poor judgment had combined to make me a victim to a much older lady with super cunning sense that was mixed with a vicious and diabolical nature. I stand accused but calmly accepted my responsibility for the sad misadventure that caused me to be a seat-mate with Sophia on a plane that was flying nowhere.

All along, I have only been generous with Sophia without knowing for sure I was the father to the baby she was carrying. On May 14, 2015, Sophia delivered her baby named Imade. It was after Sophia had deliveredthe baby that DNA testing medically confirmed that I was indeed the biological father of our child named Imade.

Once this status was obtained, Sophia started to apply maximum financial demands on me. I bought all the baby things and fully furnished her apartment. Sophia knew well how to spend money and yet contributed zero to the vast expenses that I incurred. None in her family contributed even a fake coin to the cost of having Imade.

Uncle Dele Momodu, now the pompous moralist, never visited Sophia nor even delivered an ordinary greeting cardto Imade nor to her mum. Throughout the many months that Sophia stayed at my house when she claimed she has no family in Lagos, Uncle Dele Momodu and his bossy wife never showed up at my house to say hello to either of us.

When the going was good, Sophia had told me plenty things about her uncle Dele Momodu that I need not repeat here. And she never invited me to go with her to visit him and I don’t have the knowledge that she ever visited him throughout the time she stayed in my house. She always explained that a visit to Uncle Dele was needless and unnecessary. Uncle Dele Momodu never liked, and still does not like Sophia. He is now just grandstanding because Sophia had a baby for a fairly prominent family and famous Davido.

4. The curious case of Mrs Momodu 
 
The case of Mrs Momodu baffles me even more. Why did she not think it necessary to move to Sophia’s apartment to help her out and show her the tricks of motherhood when Imade was newly born. Not once did she visit Sophia and her baby until December 2015. She gave neither care, love nor financial support to Sophia. Now, at 7 months old, and a child with special medical needs, Mrs Momodu rushed to the Lagos Airport to make an awful botch of her standing as a mother: Mrs Momodu certainly not a good person. She put time and energy to prevent my daughter and I,the real father of Imade, from travelling aboard to keep an appointment with the American Hospital, Dubai. At the point of dying in November, 2015.

Imade had been rushed to this medical facility in Dubai, where she received helpful and adequate treatment, and was duly returned to Nigeria, without any side excursions.

What then suddenly propels the fear or dangerous love of Mr & Mrs Momodu for Sophia? I deeply sense this couple never loved Sophia nor her late father. They also resent her mum, and probably are jealous that Sophia ever became a mum herself, and thus, wish that Sophia’s daughter who is also my daughter, must needlessly perish.

5. Davido does not see Sophia as a member of his own family  
 
Where is the inherent value in a callous human ploy that directly intends to prevent a child from receiving necessary medical care aboard once the biological father, David Adeleke, the child’s grandfather and all my siblings who are uncles and aunties to Imadeare booked to fly on this essential medical trip to which we have attached a restful family vacation? Sophia ain’t a member of our family, period.

Surely, Sophia was not with Imade when she first visited Dubai, and yet Imade was promptly returned to Nigeria. And no one said Sophia cannot come to Dubai except that I declared that I don’t want the trip to seem like a spousal get-away. Sophia ain’t my wife and I refuse to let any action conspire to make us look like a couple. She seemed unable or unwilling to pay her way to Dubai. Also, her boastful Uncle, alas, refused to volunteer to pay her way to Dubai.

I never suggested to an elder what he should take up as his personal responsibility if indeed he cared at all for Sophia as his robust involvement in our odd relationship wishes to establish.

MrMomodu never bought the ticket but wanted to enforce his cosine to join my family on this Dubai trip.
Dangerous lights are furiously blinking red around my daughter, Sophia and my person. Uncle Dele Momodu and his wife are providers of the energy espousing the idea of a needless death to my daughter. I now say it loud and clear, should my daughter die, this strange couple are mainly responsible. Mr Dele Momodu should just leave me and my family alone!

His daughter is not who had a baby for me, and he has been too much of an absentee uncle to Sophia to have any traction on the moral authority that commands the soul and heart of this matter. Sophia Never formally introduced him nor his wife to me, at anytime. Why are they now crowding my space and that of my daughter?

6. Davido insists that Sophia is a night crawler and shameless mother
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In May, the same month Imade was born, Sophia settled in her fancy apartment for which I paid a hefty bill for a 2 year lease. Her baby was healthy. And she seemed happy. I would take care of all the financial needs of Imade and still pay Sophia a living allowance of 300,000 Naira plus utility bills.


Within a matter of weeks, Sophia missing and lusting for the streets of Lagos, especially the glitzy night life. She often left Imade home for clubbing, binge drinking and a life of debauchery and deviant living. She would sleep all day and party all night. When awake, she was addicted to the telephone and cannabis. She paid the baby no attention at all and seem to despise motherhood and parenting.

Imade was in her custody for 2 straight months, unchallenged and uninterrupted, until the baby took badly and severely ill in July. Imade cried, ceaselessly, for 48 hours. She was rushed to the hospital where her condition confounded medical experts. Several tests were conducted on her and later on the mother.

Medical reports, herein attached(exhibit 1), proved that Sophia’s blood was polluted to the maximum level with cannabis and she had by the process of breast feeding infected her child with complicated medical conditions associated with the use of alcohol and especially cannabis. The trouble spot for Imade was her lungs. She had difficulty breathing largely because of the contaminated breast milk and the severity of the “Second Smoke” of marijuana inhaled by the poor child.

The medical experts at the hospital were enraged by the callous treatment of Imade by her own mother and declared her unfit for the caring and the nursing of a delicate baby. The team determined that they would hand over the baby to the Children’s Welfare Authority of Lagos State Government. My family started to plead with the hospital management.

7. How Sophia agreed into letting the Adelekes have her baby 
 
For the first time, Sophia too was sober, sorry and contrite. We pleaded that the baby would be kept from the mother once she was returned to us, and that we would take over responsibilities for Imade’s welfare.

Voluntarily, Sophia, in the attempt to avoid the handing over of the baby to the children welfare authority, agreed to a compromise position that she would transfer Imade to the Adeleke family until the cannabis in the systems of both mum and daughter was completely outand comprehensively cleaned out.

The medical expert also indicated that the full damage to Imade’s person could not be ascertained right away and that her mental state now or in d future could not be determined nor predicted until perhaps when she would have attained adulthood. This was why and how Imade was transferred tothe custody of the Adeleke family.
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8. Why Davido did not get Sophia the car he promised her

Soonest, Sophia began to make vigorous demands for the brand new car promised to her by me in May. My father stood out of all this matter and pointedly told me that although I was very young but I was already making big income and therefore must learn to be a responsible adult who takes care of business properly and accordingly. He had instructed since May, that i should provide the mother of my baby with a car, without delay.

But I have since had a change of mind on this issue because, of Sophia’s night crawling activities and reckless partying at night clubs. Her clubbing rendezvous escalated. In fact, she had gone to a club on Victoria Island and spent 250,000 Naira in one night. Unashamedly, she told the management of the club to slap “Davido” with the bill. I have refused to pay but till date, the club has never let off the harassment of my person for the settlement of this wild bill. I still don’t believe that my obstinacy will finally absorbed from the payment of this reckless charge. This was one of the main reason I put the purchase of the car on hold
 
Meanwhile,Imade was increasingly worse off in wellness and she had to be flown to the American hospital in Dubai. I wrote a letter of release authorizing my sister to travel to Dubai with Imade. The hospital saved Imade who was returned to Nigeria with a medical equipment that had to be used daily to enable Imadeto gain restful sleep and balanced respiratory rhythm. The photograph of this equipment is hereby attached.

9. How the trip to Dubai saved Imade's life: 
 
If Imade had not gone to Dubai, it is fair to say that she may not be alive today. Still, some people prevented her from keeping a follow-up appointment at the American Hospital in Dubai.

For the silliest possible reason.My family would not pay for Sophia’s flight ticket and thus Imade would be disallowed from traveling for the vital purpose of medical conditions that lend oxygen to her life. Which is more important to Mr Dele Momomdu, the ticket for his cousin or the overall wellness of Imade? And why can’t this glamorous uncle buy the ticket for Sophia so that the life of imade is not compromised?

10. Davido has given up on Sophia:

She is dismally inattentive. But she is a fabulous cannon fodder for all the frivolities of life. What more can I do for a woman who is not my wife? I am 23. I ain’t ready for marriage or even fatherhood. But I have accepted my responsibilities as my father raised me to understand life and deal with all its challenges.

The only reason why some of us are dancing naked in the market place today is because Sophia’s request to go to Dubai on my ticket was declined. She is demanding for her new car and a raise of her allowance to one million naira per month. The sole reason why she’s demanding for the custody of Imade is to justify the necessity for this delusional one million naira. A domestic matter that could have been quietly and sensibly settled has been tossed to the public domain with the brutal consequences to the most innocent actor in this drama, Imade.

From December 23-28, Sophia lived at my father’s Lekki residence in peace except for the first one hour when a medication was misapplied by her and Imade speedily vomited for a fearfully long time. Sophia did not know how to even bathe her own baby. She brought a friend to stay with her in a 3-bedroom flat with a resident professional nurse and nanny. Overall, her stay was joyful and in alignment with the thrills of the Christmas holiday season.

On December 29, less than 24hours of leaving my father’s house, Sophia was at the airport in the company of her uncle and his wife with malice aforethought and the aim to do maximum damage that would obstruct her child from traveling aboard to receive necessary and needful medical care. She was welcome to join us if she had bought her ticket or her uncle had funded her for the trip.

I offered to buy her a car and suggested a Toyota brand or Hyundai. She lost her cool and told me off. She wanted a fancy jeep and preferably, a Mercedes Benz Jeep. I laughed because she just wanted to be a Lagos Big Girl for nothing. She hardly can cope with the cheapest car much less the ruinous cost of maintaining a Mercedes Benz vehicle. In December she received 500,000 naira as her allowance without doing anything for Imade. Life is not a bed of roses. Neither have I ever promised Sophia a rose garden. Her spontaneous motions of delusions utterly baffle me!

11. The lie that was fed to internet users  
 
On her twitter page, she claimed she has recovered Imade from captivity. But Imade never was in captivity. Sophia certainly knows where Imade is. And it is where she left her on December 28, at my father’s house. What is the lie about? Sophia also claimed that she hasn’t seen her daughter in 5 months This cannot be true. Sophie spent every Sunday with her baby at my father’s house since July 2015 when she voluntarily transferred Imade to the Adeleke family after the cannabis incidence.
She and her daughter constantly appear on her face book and twitter pages throughout this period of 5 months. What manner of unreliable and lying person is Sophia.? The picture of your reconciliation with Imade after “captivity” that you posted on your twitter page came directly from the photo shoot that you posed for at my father’s house during your Christmas stay. Why can’t you ever be affable with truth nor have a relationship with honour?

12. Shame on Uncle Dele Momodu: 
 
Uncle Dele Momodu was the first to bring this domestic matter online and onto the internet. Uncle Dele Momodu ran smack into the internet highway on December 30 with Video recordings that he dishonestly, immorally and unlawfully recorded at a government facility and office at the Murtala Mohammed International Airport, Lagos. Uncle, you are wrong and you are not doing the right thing.
By doing a thing so unlawful over a domestic mater between a 23-yearold boy and your niece is a bothersome slight that proved your niece must have learnt her sleazy ways from your own accomplished slap-happy conduct.

Life is beautiful if we all live in simple ways and do not engage criminal gadgets to replace integrity and honour. Your worthless videorecordings has achieved nothing. But exposed your naivety and lack of decorum. Your recordings cannot alter the fact that I am “Davido” father of Imade and it cannot force me to be the husband of your cousin.

In truth, I don’t know if you are uncle or cousin to Sophia. The word uncle has lost it esteem since the timethat sleazebucket took over our land. Still, Uncle Dele Momodu, it is immoral, unlawful and unethical to clandestinely record anyone, especially friends and family members. This scandalous act truly got you slaughtered and put a new slant on your person.

I am 23 and you are almost 60. Your cousin has a baby for me. Rather than bring us together as a family, you wished for glowing embers to come out of cool cucumber. You know damn well how to grandstand. This is why you instructed your lawyers to put garbage on the internet in a matter that should be showcased in the court of law.

Uncle, who offended you? Is it Davido, Sophia or Imade? It cannot be my late mum after whom I named Imade. Is it my gentle dad? Why have you engaged yourself in a bitter private vendetta with my family? Uncle, you will have your day in court. But you will soonest be forced to embrace the fact that the crowning glory of your puffing and pride rests in your stunning emptiness. Again, I dare you, publish the garbage in your vanity trunk or perish!.

13. God should intervene: 
I am 23 and a performing artiste that God immensely blessed and I have joyfully made good in the industry. I won’t do this forever, and I shall timely step aside in the nearest future. I have a degree and I am stashing my monies aside so that I can build a decent future for Imade plus my future wife and family. I believe as the bible says, “every good gift is from above”.

There is nothing better in life than to tell the truth and pray. May God ever stand by me and deliver to me my dreams and wishes. May He also deliver to your own children their dreams and desires. Uncle Dele Momodu, please, please leave me and my family alone even if it is clear, by God’s will, that you can’t do us a thing. As for me, this is the end of this conversation. May God lead both of us to the righteous path.I thank you very much, sir.

Saturday, 2 January 2016

COBHAMS ASUQUO: I MIGHT STILL BECOME A PASTOR

COBHAMS ASUQUO: I MIGHT  STILL  BECOME  A PASTOR
COBHAMS ASUQUO


Nigeria’s answer to Stevie Wonder, Cobhams Asuquo, speaks with JANE KOLADE about his love of music, craftsmanship, and achieving worldwide success in spite of being blind. Excerpts:
YOU are Nigeria’s number one music producer, and not just that but also immensely in demand outside these shores, how do you manage that?
You know that is not quite true; there are people who will argue that claim.
 You actually write songs for international musicians.
That bit would be true.
 America has Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder, Nigeria has Cobhams Asuquo, but the social milieu of both countries are so different; worlds apart. How was a man with your challenge able to become what you are today, considering the myriad of challenges in our peculiar environment?
I think it starts with knowing that you do not have an option. On two levels, one, when you were born blind in the early eighties and parents did not know what to do other than just show you love, and that was all they could give at the time. You realise that you are starting from the bottom rung, and starting from there, the only way you can go is up. On another level, it is knowing that you will accept nothing less.
For me, I do not have the capacity to think of being poor or think of not being successful. I do not have the capacity to deal with failure, and that does not mean that I don’t fail. I have failed quite a number of times, and have done classically dumb stuff, I promise you. But it is all part of my journey, and never the destination for me. So I think it comes with knowing that you don’t have any option but to do well.
So, for me, it’s not a question of whether or not I can see, rather my personal expectation of myself, and what I want out of life, and fighting against all odds; fighting tooth and nail, and everything else in between to get that place. I am doing something just moving my life in the right direction, the right course, the right tangent. As you grow older, you become more self-aware, people who are tied to you, who believe in you. So, I think, for me, really, it’s knowing that you don’t have an option. That can really drive you.
 Are there things in your upbringing responsible for your success?
A lot of things helped me succeed in my upbringing. First of all, my parents are very positive people, even when we didn’t know how it was going to happen, my mother would say to me, “I know you are going to become someone great in life.” So that positive confession, growing up, stayed with me. And my mother is quite the optimist; she has had her fair share of life, but has managed to remain a happy woman. I think that sense of optimism, undeterred by anything, has helped me.
I am a product of love; I grew up in a family with lots of love. We didn’t have a lot of money, but we had a lot of love, and pride in ourselves as a family. We often described ourselves as a family jokingly as members of the Asuquan Empire or something stupid like that. We liked it, we liked ourselves and took pride in who we were, and I think that instilled in me a sense of pride in myself, and self-confidence.
And then the God side of my mother began to manifest as I grew older, and then my father’s responsibility for his family, his generosity. A lot of things: my father’s love for me, my mother’s love for me, my brothers’ love for me. I am literally the culmination, if you will, of the bringing together everything my family growing up actually believed in.
 There are many believers (especially gospel singers) who would not want to do secular music, or even work with secular musicians. As a believer in a secular work environment, especially the entertainment industry, how have you managed that? The interrelationship between your work, your faith, and the people you work with; especially with the lifestyle that goes with the entertainment industry?
I think what makes one really who you are is inside. The environment you find yourself is external; your ability to function in that environment depends on what is inside of you. I believe that I have a strong foundation. I grew up Catholic and went to Catholic schools, and have always been a person of faith even though I had to find my way, from trying to understand Catholicism as a young boy, asking so many questions I thought I wasn’t getting answers to, becoming a ‘Protestant’ (as they would say) to becoming Pentecostal, to becoming a moralist where you believe that it is good to do good and evil to do evil.
Going beyond religion to finding Jesus myself, and being conscious of who I am (is) the whole gamut. I have gone full circle, and for me I believe it helped me build a foundation where I am aware of whom I am. So when I go into whatever environment, I go in carrying the person I am inside, recognising that the person I am has a mission to affect what is around him. So that is what I do. My talent is for a reason; you don’t hide your light under a bushel, or hang out with just anyone. Scientists create innovations that help the rest of the world do simple things, and not just help other scientists function at helping other scientists.
That is how I see Christianity. For me, it’s about just functioning in the space where you are just holy or safe. So you go out, and you influence people. The word says that they will know us by our love, so you try to influence people and you show love. You do what you do with people, you don’t judge people, and you don’t have the right to. Just do right and you will influence people, and you learn. I think, for me, that is what it is. I have a foundation because of who I think I am internally, and I take that presence with me wherever I go, and I try to create my own impact. It functions better when you are actually in a space that actually limits it.
 Can you tell us about your scheme (foundation) to give back to society?
I never started a foundation. I do a lot of things though. I haven’t started a foundation. I think I’m too scatterbrained to run a foundation right now. Maybe I will get better. I’m growing and learning, just gaining a lot: business acumen and the like. Having said that, I don’t think I will start a foundation just yet. I am happy supporting foundations I believe in.
For instance, I am closely associated with the Niger Wives Rehabilitation Centre, an association made up of women who were not born Nigerian but are married to Nigerian men. They started this organisation that crashed the price of Braille mathematics textbooks from ten thousand naira to three hundred and fifty naira, amongst other things. They made a lot of our literature textbooks accessible to us when I was in secondary school. They continue to create material for blind people to make education more accessible in the Nigerian space. So I’m closely associated with them and I support them in whatever way I can, because without people like that I don’t know how I would have managed through school.
Also the Nigerian Association for the Welfare of the Blind. I am associated with foundations that run courses that I support, but I don’t run a foundation myself. What I do, however, is I am starting something for people who actually want to create good music, who want to make great organic music, and I want to give them a platform to shine, but that has not taken off yet. There is like a ton of stuff that I do but I wouldn’t call it a foundation in that sense. I am associated with Jacklyn NGO, Food for All, run by Patricia Esebhade. I prefer to be associated with organisations, at this point, than to deal with the logistics of running one. I think there are people doing great work out there who need to be supported. I think that is the more practical position to take for now.
 What informed your decision to abandon your degree programme and pursue music?
I think that is how much of a hold music had on me. I realised: “Don’t kid yourself, this is it. This is what you live for.” I used to cut classes to be in the studio, and if you know the kind of person I am, I was not an average student.
If I may say so myself, I was pretty much an A student. But when it got to that point where I would leave everything to be in the studio to make music, I realised that it was the sensible thing to do, thinking “This thing has a hold of me, and I might as well pursue it.” When you follow the trajectory of your life, you know the things that move you in the right path towards your destiny.
Sometimes, if you doubt it, you live to regret that you doubted. I didn’t want that to happen. I wanted my life to matter. My original plan, (and it sounded lofty) was laudable and the sort of thing for an academic like me to do, go to school, and come out and work with the International Court of Justice in the Hague, and all of that. But I realised in all of that I really wanted to make music, because that is where my soul unwinds, my soul is set free. That is why I decided to pursue it, and I have no regrets.
At what point did you realise that you wanted a career in music?
My third year in university. I think I just realised that I couldn’t go back; it didn’t feel right, in any case. Someone had messed up my admission process in my getting into Unilag, which was by itself another story altogether because I already had admission to study in a school called Mercer University in Atlanta, Georgia.
But for whatever reason, that didn’t work out. And I wound up in Unilag, and in my third year I realised that I wasn’t cut out for it. I was coasting, and settling, and I needed to find my life. I needed to find my joy, and the person I had always been. I had been performing from my primary school days; doing all kinds of things. Then I was settling for this life, going through the motions, and waking up and going to sleep, and just living life like everyone else was just great. But you know that you are cut out for much more and you are settling for less.
I realised that music was the key to unlock the rest of my life, and so after I wrote fifteen letters to God, and I signed each one of them Cobhams Asuquo God, as I felt, “If I am your son, I might as well bear it as my last name.” So after a while I made up my mind that I was not going back. So I went back to school to give out my stuff. I went to my room, gave out all of my stuff and didn’t go back.
 Did your parents support your decision?
Yes, my mother (well both my parents actually) and it was scary for me. My parents trust me to always be responsible and always make sensible decisions. When people have that level of trust in you, it behoves you to live up to their expectations, and for a young guy who also wanted to enjoy life, I had to grow up quickly and become responsible, and actually live up to their expectations and make them proud up to that point.
The general assumption was if this was the path I had chosen to take, I would do them proud as well. I think that was it, but it also kept me in check. So I lived with the reminder to be responsible, and to make something out of my decision, and like I said, failure as a final result was not an option, so I had to do everything I could to make sense of this path I had chosen to follow. My parents believed that I would make success of my life even if I chose to be a plumber.
 What qualities do you believe helped you succeed?
I never think I am too much to do anything. When I decided to transition from producing to performing, I said to my friend Obino, ”From now on, I am going to be Nigeria’s official houseboy.”  I appeared at whatever gig I was invited to perform, and I would go there and do my share. When you have that mindset, you just keep going, and you never know, even when you begin to do big things, in your mind you are never too big to do anything. I think for me that’s just very important. I think being straightforward,
I realised that I am thirty-four now and I have very little time for foolishness. I am not a serious person in the typical straightjacket way, over-efficient, never-laughing way, but I have discovered that my life matters and time is my most valuable currency.  And so I use it judiciously. I don’t like it being wasted. So I think my value for my time is another quality. I think my understanding of principles – the world is not a function of accident, there are principles that govern this world – and those principles are sure to work for you.
My understanding of those principles and my application of them in my life has contributed to my success. I know that it is important for me to honour my parents. I know that it is important for me to give. I know that it is important for me to live far beyond myself. I know that it is important for me to go after what I desire. I just know certain things that are principles that you can find in the bible, and other books you believe in. Principles that govern the earth, that are sure to give results, I live strictly by them, from a Christian perspective because I am a Christian. But Hindus, and Sikhs, and Taoists; whatever you call them, all imbibe these principles, one way or the other.
I am a strong believer in principles, and I think principles are definitely a route to success. What else? I am not a baggage person. I don’t have time for it, it’s too much wahala. I’m easy, and I think that when you are easy, you don’t carry negative energy around you. You attract your kind. It’s just a disposition that helps you get through life, making more of a success of it, especially if you are more of an optimist.  And optimism is infectious; it attracts everything that is good. I try to always love. I try to find a reason to laugh.
 Have you ever been discriminated against because of your peculiar gift in the course of your career?
Yes, I think I have been. First of all, I started my career having to prove a point that I could actually do it. You don’t want to go into the studio as an adult with a sixteen-year-old producer, most especially a blind producer. So I was discriminated against because of my age, it’s like saying your doctor is a mental case.
How do you trust that kind of doctor? But I am thankful for the likes of Maintain, and those who took a chance with me, and decided to work with me, even though they had achieved some sort of notoriety at the time. That was sort of a springboard because the chance they took helped launch my career as a young producer.
 Do you do anything outside of music?
Yes, I do a few things outside of music. I love to, or rather I should say I get to speak to people – it’s the most unnerving thing I do because I run away from it up until I get to do it. I never want to do it, as a matter of fact one of my most widely circulated speeches was given at Tedtalk, and I was going to cancel a few days before the event. I prayed I would miss the flight. I’m just generally nervous before I give a speech, but for some weird reason it turns out well. So, yes, I get to speak; I can’t say with boldness that I love to speak.
But what I do know is that if I don’t speak, I regret it because I realise that I have a lot to say, and I might have missed the opportunity to say it. But afterwards, I’m happy because I realise there is a lot of truth in what I say; I can be expressive. I will never think of myself as a motivational speaker, no. It’s a very overrated title. I have a thing for real estate. I also have a thing for radio. I am not doing much of that right now, but I actually was with Rhythm 93.7 for a short while as an On Air Personality.
 If you weren’t doing music, what would you be doing?
And I shouldn’t say if I wasn’t doing music, because I think I might still do these things. Politics, because I think leaders actually impact the lives of people, leadership, and doing things right. People need to give people direction, and step up to the plate.
You can’t keep criticising, take up the mantle of leadership and start doing things to make things better. So I would probably be a politician; I will still be a politician. I would probably be preaching, I might still preach. I am born again; unashamedly so. And I love Jesus, but I listen to a lot of Dr Dre (He laughs) and I love Jay-Z, and Kendrick Lamar, and all that other stuff. I am a very interesting person; it’s a very confusing mix that is this personality that is Cobhams Asuquo.
I don’t know how my church members will feel to know that I’m in touch with everything that is trending. Like I know that Miguel has put out a new album; that kind of stuff. It is quite confusing like I would definitely love to preach, I feel like I have just experienced life, I love God’s Word, and I love how it has the power to transform lives. And I want to share it, and I love worship and I want to share that. I have all those sides to me.
 You once said that blindness is your gift. Why do you think so?
I think so because I learnt a lot from it, because it shaped who I am. I think so because sometimes it takes something as startling as blindness to find yourself, and find meaning. I don’t know who I would have been if I was not blind. A ton of sighted people have done amazing things with their lives.
 I just feel that not being able to see has this amazing side to it. It gives you perspective. As I have said, it left me with fewer options than everyone else, and so I had to make use of the options I have.  When something transforms your life radically like that, you can see it as a blessing or a curse. Whatever you see it as is what it will yield to you. And for me I see it as a gift, and I think that is self-evident.
 Are you happy with your life?
I am ecstatic. I love my life so much, I look at my life sometimes, and I’m amazed. I would love to be me. And it doesn’t mean that I’m satisfied with who I am, but I am happy to have come this far, and where I am going (which is a better place.) I know I am not where I used to be. I have so many things to be thankful for. I am one of those people who wound up on the right side of life, and I don’t take it for granted.
Because I’m conscious of what other people have, and what other people have to go through. Because of my position in life, I have to support other people, and be there for them. They were born on a day stars were shining just like mine, but here I am.
 If a young guy just starting out in music walked up to you and asked for advice, what would you tell him?
To do amazing things, you need to have something that makes you stand out – talent. They say talent is not enough, but talent is important, whatever it is, whether for music, or anything else. Talent is not skill, skill is important but you need to have the predisposition for it to be able do the thing and understand how it comes together.
That is when you can acquire skill quickly and make sense. In the words of my friend, Banky W, if what you want is a quick-fix or money that will come quickly; if you don’t have the energy for long term hustle, or delayed gratification, please don’t do music, because it will shake you and you will go through the wringer. But if you have the energy for that stuff, go for it. If you have passion also, go for it. It requires dreaming, working to achieve your dreams, and believing that your dreams will come true.
And of course, stick around people that have gone down your road. They will help you get there faster. What I would say would depend on his peculiarity. It’s not a cookie cutter answer.
 What would you tell him to stay away from?
The lure of the opposite sex that can derail you, stay away from excesses, and you will get a lot of things in excess as a musician, because it will ruin you. On your way (to the) top, you have to believe in something, so stay away from religious-free mindedness (for want of a better word.) Stay away from standing for nothing, because you’ve got to stand for something.
In my own case, my preferred suggestion is God in my life, and the grace of God in my life, and what God is but if you don’t have that, then you’ll be introduced to so many other things. Stay away from draining parties that don’t add to your life. Parties are great if you are going to meet great people, and hang out with friends, or land you your next gig. There (are) a lot of useless shindigs out there, and everyone is going to want you.
Stay away from too many people, or you will become too many people’s best friend. And those people will disappear in the blink of an eye the minute you run out of the things that make you who you are. As sure as the sun rises in the East, they will disappear. Build your core team and stick with them.

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Olamide Apologizes To Fans For His Conduct At Headies Last Night

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YBNL boss Olamide Adedeji has acted just like a boss as he offered an apology to his fans over his misconduct at the 2015 Headies.
He took to Instagram to share his apology especially for swearing on live TV.
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We love to see peace reign… #BossMoves

Headies 2015: The moment when Reekado Banks called 'Lil Kesh' a bad boy (Watch)



After being called on stage with his other Mavin crew members, Reekado while receiving his 'Next Rated star' award dissed Lil Kesh.


He said "Lil Kesh my brother, you are a bad boy o, you aint cute...."

Watch video below:


How Davido already predicted the Olamide vs Donjazzy Headies saga


In October, 2015, Davido made a prediction and it has happened!
 
He declared LilKesh the winner of the Headies 2015 awards, adding that if they didn't give him the nextrated award, he should pull a Kanye on them.
 

Headies 2015: Lil Kesh, Wande Coal, Phyno, Eniola Badmus, Burna Boy, others react to the Don Jazzy vs Olamide controversy + see full Winners' list

Lil Kesh- the man in the middle of the latest controversy in the Nigerian music industry, has had his say on the unfolding drama.

Super-producer, Don Jazzy and rapper, Olamide are at loggerheads over Lil Kesh’s failure to win the Next Rated artiste at the Headies 2015 Awards.
The pair have exchanged words over Reekado Bank’s winning of the award.
But Lil Kesh, who many expected to win the award, says the car-gift that’s tied to the category, means little to him.

See Phyno's reaction





Wande Coal on the other hand began following Olamide on twitter. Wande Coal who had before now been having frictions with Olamide, just started following him. He also followed that up with a retweet that 'One day, my people will be free'.  

You also recall that Wande Coal and Don Jazzy one time fell out and also had a dirty fight on Twitter because Wande allegedly stole Don Jazzy's song ‘Baby face’

Wande reacted by telling Don Jazzy he wasn't God that made him. Just the same thing Olamide told Don Jazzy in his rants. Read it all below




See Eniola Badmus' tweets


And Burnaboy's tweets


 KCee's reaction
 
See below, the full list of winners from The Headies 2015 Awards.
Headies Hall of Fame
2Face Idibia
Best Street-Hop Artiste
Olamide (‘Bobo’)
Best Pop Single
‘Godwin’ by Korede Bello
Best Male Performance
Timi Dakolo (‘Wish me well’)
Best R&B single
‘Wish me well’ by Timi Dakolo
Best rap single
‘King kong’ by Vector
Best Vocal Performance (female)
Aramide (‘Iwo Nikan)
Best Ragga/dancehall single
‘German juice’ by Cynthia Morgan
Best Music Video
‘Katapot’ (by Reekado Banks, video shot by Unlimited L.A)
Best Collaboration
‘Local Rappers’ – Reminisce ft Olamide, Phyno & StormRex
Best Rap Album
“Chairman” by M.I
Best Music Producer
Legendary Beatz (‘Ojuelegba’)
Lyricist On The Roll
Vector
Next Rated
Reekado Banks
Revelation of The Year
Yemi Alade
Recording of the year
‘Wish me well’ – Timi Dakolo
Best Alternative Song
‘Sade’ – Adekunle Gold
Special Recognition Award
Don Jazzy
Best Pop/R&B Album
AYO – Wizkid
Artiste of The Year
Olamide
Song of The Year
‘Ojuelegba’ – Wizkid
Rookie of The Year
YCee