So hours ago, Toke Makinwa got into trouble with some ladies and some men after advising for Nigerian women to lie to their significant other about their past abortions.
In a video posted to Wazobia FM’s Facebook page, the OAP who doubles as a vlogger, responded to a question from a female fan who asked if she should open up to the man she was dating about her history of abortions. The fan said she had previously had an abortion and that the man she was dating is pro-life (someone who hates abortions).
In her response, Toke Makinwa said, “Are you a learner? When I read your email, I almost slapped you from my laptop. How can you even think of confessing? You dey craze? Was he there? Was he the doctor?
She added, “Do you like men that carry prostitutes? Would he tell you if he carried a prostitute on Sanusi Fafunwa street? Shine your eyes. Men feel as if they can handle the truth but if you tell him that’s the last time, he’s ever going to call your phone.
“My response to that is hell no! Deny like your life depends on it. LIE! After all he wasn’t there.”
Judging by the response the video got on social media, many Nigerians were upset that Toke Makinwa who recently reconciled with her husband after he had a child with an ex-girlfriend would give such advise.
Here are some feedback, Toke received:
Adeniran Temitope Adeyinka: U are pointless dear , if ur past now call back in ur future is it then u will now open up? Is better to let him know ur past, if he still want you then fine, if not the move on. A guy or lady that cannot handle ur past is not really in love with you. If u open up after marriage that’s d end of d home. Imagine, u guys didn’t have baby on time and medical report shows or ur doctors ask u to be sincere to know where d problem lies will you still deny it. Toke makiwa please, don’t mislead people in ur advice.
Prince Kel Lol@ Jim Smith: Nne any woman dat can hide such to her lover is Evil! Secondly my woman can use my phone but not without my consent. In a relationship, you have to be humble and respect each oda!
Cyprain Nwafor: Lamest blog ever seen.. I jst wasted my mb watching dis.. U tink men are lik women. Wen a man truly loves u.. Even if u had no womb he is gonna stick wit u.. Its beta u tell him dan for him to find out by himself.. Dats wer d real problem is… So miss pancake face.. Do ur research well and stop basing facts on ur failed relationships…
Enakireru Governor Franklin: Toke am amazed at Ur statement and on this one i totally disagree with u.. How can u give such advice knowing dat it can or will curse a whole lot of problems in the nearest future . and that one reason why guys of 2day will insists that a lady should get pregnant first b4 anything is done in the area of marriage.. Goshhh wat kind of inhuman advice is this for heaven sake
Cyprain Nwafor Chinazor: Yes its ur past.. Bt hav u hrd abt d past coming to taunt and haunt d future?.. Its not a story tale.. It happens.. To avoid dat is to open up to ur guy.. Even d guy too must open up to u.. U guys hav to deal wit d ugly past or else.. I reserve my comment
Chinese Gold Omoye: Really I don’ t like to comment but I just have to say my mind(sharing your past wit a guy means u love him. den it’s left for him, if he love u his always be there for u think about if your ex is his best friend, u never knew while. for d phone my dear never u go through his phone without his consent,a phone call can destroy your home)Be wise
Adika Marcelinius: Valentine You are the one that is misleading all this ladies…if u don’t have good advise stop posting here… How will someone have an abortion and wouldn’t tell d man he getting married to..do u knw the later repercussions…. Pls arise and don’t mislead. sharp babe
Upright Pious Lofty: Unacceptable Disgraceful ungodly, Toke you got that all wrong and I’m gonna slap you for this! Onisokuso
Wilfred Leonard: Bad market for you. E go hard you to get husband because you still see relationship as a game people play
Davis Khalifa: Sorry 4 de man dat wil call u wife
Rouven Niedermann: Oh you tell her to lie?!? If he finds out that she lied its more worst !!!!
In support of Toke
Am Taken said: Do men tell ladies all the bad things they do?
Am not a bad girl, but if I ever make a silly mistake (God forbid) I ain't telling no man unless he's a true Christian.
What if he uses it against you later?
Kfbers, do you agree with Toke?